Sometimes it seems like the more you want a girl, the less chance there is that you'll get her.
Yeah, there is some truth to this idea – it's not just you psyching yourself out.
You see, when a guy wants a girl really badly, he actually is doing stuff and sending out vibes that are making it IMPOSSIBLE for him to build any sort of attraction with her.
You know what I'm talking about, right?
You meet a cool girl.
Of course you want to sleep with her, but you also want her to like you - you want her to be attracted to you as much as you are attracted to her.
So you try to be a "nice guy".
Maybe you give her flowers or other gifts. But more likely, you just shower her with "attention"
But even if you don't give her gifts, you have that mindset: If I'm nice enough and if I do enough stuff for her, eventually she is going to like me.
And then, when it doesn't happen like that (and it almost NEVER does), you just try to "prove yourself" to her even more.
But the harder you try, the LESS she's interested.
If what I've just said describes what you are doing to get a girl right now or what you have done in the past (and most guys have done this in the past), then there are a couple things you have to admit to yourself.
First, some bad news: you are making some serious MISTAKES.
But there is good news too: once you correct these mistakes, you WILL be able to get her to be uncontrollably into to you.
-> follow this 3 step "mind game" called The Scrambler (weird)
Here's the #1 thing you have to understand: A girl won't ever like you (or respect you) if you throw yourself at her
Girls are turned on by uncertainty. This is ESPECIALLY true with attractive girls. Guys do all kinds of crazy shit all the time to try to get their attention.
But so often these hot girls ignore all these guys and end up with bad-boy types.
The reason is NOT that all girls are attracted to the same type of guy. It's just that they are bored with all the other guys..they want some uncertainty, some excitement, someone who is different from the usual.
In a sense, the kind of guy that makes hot girls excited is EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE of the kind of guy that most guys strive to be when they are trying to get a girl to want them.
(use THESE 4 weapons from a mind game called The Scrambler)
And here's #2: You are too afraid of losing (and she is not)
Here's one of the truths of the universe: humans hate losing shit. If they want something badly enough, they will do just about anything to try to keep it.
This is the reason why guys pursue girls the way that they do - with the nice guy act and the flowers or whatever.
They think that this is a safe way to try to seduce her. They think that if they try anything else, they are going to lose whatever chance they think they have with her.
Yeah, thinking this way is human nature, but it is also keeping you from getting her to want to get naked with you.
But, the idea of fear of loss is important:
Fear of loss in universal. If you can get her to feel it about you, she is going to chase you…guaranteed.
-> discover how to jump start the "fear of loss"
Creating this feeling in a girl, in any girl, is totally possible when you use the trick taught in the video above...
Yeah, there is some truth to this idea – it's not just you psyching yourself out.
You see, when a guy wants a girl really badly, he actually is doing stuff and sending out vibes that are making it IMPOSSIBLE for him to build any sort of attraction with her.
You know what I'm talking about, right?
You meet a cool girl.
Of course you want to sleep with her, but you also want her to like you - you want her to be attracted to you as much as you are attracted to her.
So you try to be a "nice guy".
Maybe you give her flowers or other gifts. But more likely, you just shower her with "attention"
But even if you don't give her gifts, you have that mindset: If I'm nice enough and if I do enough stuff for her, eventually she is going to like me.
And then, when it doesn't happen like that (and it almost NEVER does), you just try to "prove yourself" to her even more.
But the harder you try, the LESS she's interested.
If what I've just said describes what you are doing to get a girl right now or what you have done in the past (and most guys have done this in the past), then there are a couple things you have to admit to yourself.
First, some bad news: you are making some serious MISTAKES.
But there is good news too: once you correct these mistakes, you WILL be able to get her to be uncontrollably into to you.
-> follow this 3 step "mind game" called The Scrambler (weird)
Here's the #1 thing you have to understand: A girl won't ever like you (or respect you) if you throw yourself at her
Girls are turned on by uncertainty. This is ESPECIALLY true with attractive girls. Guys do all kinds of crazy shit all the time to try to get their attention.
But so often these hot girls ignore all these guys and end up with bad-boy types.
The reason is NOT that all girls are attracted to the same type of guy. It's just that they are bored with all the other guys..they want some uncertainty, some excitement, someone who is different from the usual.
In a sense, the kind of guy that makes hot girls excited is EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE of the kind of guy that most guys strive to be when they are trying to get a girl to want them.
(use THESE 4 weapons from a mind game called The Scrambler)
And here's #2: You are too afraid of losing (and she is not)
Here's one of the truths of the universe: humans hate losing shit. If they want something badly enough, they will do just about anything to try to keep it.
This is the reason why guys pursue girls the way that they do - with the nice guy act and the flowers or whatever.
They think that this is a safe way to try to seduce her. They think that if they try anything else, they are going to lose whatever chance they think they have with her.
Yeah, thinking this way is human nature, but it is also keeping you from getting her to want to get naked with you.
But, the idea of fear of loss is important:
Fear of loss in universal. If you can get her to feel it about you, she is going to chase you…guaranteed.
-> discover how to jump start the "fear of loss"
Creating this feeling in a girl, in any girl, is totally possible when you use the trick taught in the video above...
This will even work if she has told you that you and her are "just friends" and it can even work if she has given you other excuses as well.
Tap into the "bang me" center of her mind with this simple trick
Tap into the "bang me" center of her mind with this simple trick
