From the first time you meet a girl, she is subconsciously trying to find answers to certain questions about you.
How she answers these questions will decide how she thinks of you...as a friend, as someone she wants to sleep with or have a relationship with, or as someone needy or weird who she wants to avoid.
In short, her goal is to “figure you out.”
Here is what she wants to know:
- Are you different from other guys? Interesting? Exciting? Unpredictable?
- What do you want from her?
- What can she get you to do for her?
- Do you think she is special? And will you treat her that way?
- Do you like her more than she likes you?
- Are you jealous or needy?
-How much attention do you need? How much attention are you willing to give her?
*** Learn how you can use these questions to subconsciously build a girl's attraction for you
When a girl asks herself these questions, her goal is to make sure she is choosing the best available option. At the very least, she wants to keep from making a mistake and ending up with a guy who is needy or a guy who will make her feel like a slut and leave right after he sleeps with her.
And most guys play right into this dynamic. They try to convince her that they are “the best option” and then they simply sit back and wait for her to choose them.
But you don't need to wait for her to answer her questions. In fact, it's a terrible idea.
Here's why:
First of all, it gives her all the POWER and initiative. All you can do is wait for her to make her decision.
More importantly, as you sit there waiting, you are completely missing the chance to use your trump card
... the ultimate power that you hold over her.
You see, a girl wants to have all her questions about you answered. She almost feels like she NEEDS to have these answers. If she doesn't get them, it will drive her crazy.
As long as she doesn't know these answers. As long as she doesn't know what category to put you in, she will be thinking about you...and therefore you will have the "upper hand".
So how do you keep her from getting the answers that she so desperately wants?
By sending mixed signals to her and by sometimes stepping back and letting her think about you when you are not there.
Yes, what I am talking about is kind of like playing “hard to get.”
But, most guys who try to play hard to get do it completely wrong.
Either they go too far and make it seem like they are not interested in a girl at all, or they don't go far enough and they just come across as awkward wussies.
Here's a secret....
You don't really want to be hard to get, you want to be “hard to define.”
Sometimes you act interested in her, sometimes not. Sometimes she is sure that you are attracted to her, sometimes she wonders if you couldn't care less. Sometimes she puts you in one category and sometimes she wants to put you in another.
But the one thing she does all the time is think about you.
Now, beware!
It is easy to get this wrong.
Balance is key. She has to know that you are attracted to her, otherwise she won't care about answering her questions. But if you act too attracted, you'll lose that all-important initiative.
How do you balance this?
Simple, use this weird little mind game called "The Scrambler"
If you do this right, she will be the one chasing you every time, and you will always have all the "upper hand".
Discover the power of The Scrambler now.
How she answers these questions will decide how she thinks of you...as a friend, as someone she wants to sleep with or have a relationship with, or as someone needy or weird who she wants to avoid.
In short, her goal is to “figure you out.”
Here is what she wants to know:
- Are you different from other guys? Interesting? Exciting? Unpredictable?
- What do you want from her?
- What can she get you to do for her?
- Do you think she is special? And will you treat her that way?
- Do you like her more than she likes you?
- Are you jealous or needy?
-How much attention do you need? How much attention are you willing to give her?
*** Learn how you can use these questions to subconsciously build a girl's attraction for you
When a girl asks herself these questions, her goal is to make sure she is choosing the best available option. At the very least, she wants to keep from making a mistake and ending up with a guy who is needy or a guy who will make her feel like a slut and leave right after he sleeps with her.
And most guys play right into this dynamic. They try to convince her that they are “the best option” and then they simply sit back and wait for her to choose them.
But you don't need to wait for her to answer her questions. In fact, it's a terrible idea.
Here's why:
First of all, it gives her all the POWER and initiative. All you can do is wait for her to make her decision.
More importantly, as you sit there waiting, you are completely missing the chance to use your trump card
... the ultimate power that you hold over her.
You see, a girl wants to have all her questions about you answered. She almost feels like she NEEDS to have these answers. If she doesn't get them, it will drive her crazy.
As long as she doesn't know these answers. As long as she doesn't know what category to put you in, she will be thinking about you...and therefore you will have the "upper hand".
So how do you keep her from getting the answers that she so desperately wants?
By sending mixed signals to her and by sometimes stepping back and letting her think about you when you are not there.
Yes, what I am talking about is kind of like playing “hard to get.”
But, most guys who try to play hard to get do it completely wrong.
Either they go too far and make it seem like they are not interested in a girl at all, or they don't go far enough and they just come across as awkward wussies.
Here's a secret....
You don't really want to be hard to get, you want to be “hard to define.”
Sometimes you act interested in her, sometimes not. Sometimes she is sure that you are attracted to her, sometimes she wonders if you couldn't care less. Sometimes she puts you in one category and sometimes she wants to put you in another.
But the one thing she does all the time is think about you.
Now, beware!
It is easy to get this wrong.
Balance is key. She has to know that you are attracted to her, otherwise she won't care about answering her questions. But if you act too attracted, you'll lose that all-important initiative.
How do you balance this?
Simple, use this weird little mind game called "The Scrambler"
If you do this right, she will be the one chasing you every time, and you will always have all the "upper hand".
Discover the power of The Scrambler now.
Trust me, this is powerful stuff, especially since so few guys use this idea to their advantage.
Once you master it, you can be sure that she is thinking about you when you are not around, even if some other guy is aggressively flirting with her.
=> Learn the weird little mind game that gets her chasing you
Once you master it, you can be sure that she is thinking about you when you are not around, even if some other guy is aggressively flirting with her.
=> Learn the weird little mind game that gets her chasing you
