I want you to experience the joy of having a relationship that is mutually satisfying, light and refreshing. It’s a relationship in which you can relax and be fully you. No games. No pretenses. No tension. No wondering.
It’s a relationship you can trust. You have a firm belief rooted in your mind and in the pit of your stomach that this joy-filled relationship will never end.
To be more specific, here’s what I want for you:
• Eliminate your fear of being close
• Be intimate without losing your personal freedom
• Stop chasing
• Stop running away
• Lose your fear of being smothered
• Lose your fear of conflict
• Be powerfully heard
• Hear powerfully
• More personally productive and successful in other areas of your life because of your emotional connection
• Speak your mind and no longer hide
• No longer work so hard at pleasing
• Freedom from meeting his/her needs
• Throw the concept of compatibility out the window
• Discover that men are NOT from Mars
• That your marriage give life and not be an emotional death sentence
• Feel extremely excited about each other (passion)
Yes, it is possible to create such a relationship. And, it’s not as difficult as you might think. However, the route I suggest is probably drastically different than you believe.