For guys, attraction is instant.
They see a girl and decide almost right away if they want her or not. And it may only take a few times of talking with her for them to get infatuated.
C'mon, you've probably been there. Right?
So why doesn’t it seem to work the same way for girls?
Well, it does, in a way. Girls get attracted to guys just as quickly as guys get attracted to girls.
BUT, girls are much more CAUTIOUS.
This is especially true for really hot girls that every guy wants to sleep with or really cool girls that every guy wants to be in a relationship with.
(Trust me, if you think she is incredibly sexy or super-cool, lots of other guys think exactly the same thing about her).
These desirable girls have had guys get CLINGY and NEEDY. (has THAT guy ever been YOU?)
Plus, they have been with guys who seemed confident and attractive at first... but then turned out to be insecure and BORING.
So even if she seems to like you (actually, especially if she likes you), she is going to be looking for signs that you are somehow undesirable.
(this video reveals 4 of the signs she looks for- and I can bet you're doing at least THREE of them)
A lot of guys, especially those guys who haven't had a lot of success with girls, get insecure and nervous under this kind of scrutiny and they end up doing things that RUIN their chances.
The basically get desperate and become exactly like the kind of needy guys that she is trying to avoid.
What if there was a way to "short circuit" a girl's defenses?
There is. Some guys are able to do it all the time. I'm going to tell you how they do it in a second.
But first, some good news for you: getting past a girls defenses has NOTHING to do with the kind of things that guys usually assume girls are attracted to.
It has nothing to do with how much money you have or how good looking you are or how big your dick is.
Getting past a girl's defenses has everything to do with one simple thing: "getting her to think about you when you are not around."
See, a girl's attraction actually builds when you are not around because attraction is psychological.
These are the "psychological triggers" you want to create in her:
- anticipation to see you
- compulsive thoughts about you
- you want her decoding YOUR BEHAVIOR
Here's the FUN PART.
There are a lot of things that you can do to get a girl to think about you when you are not around.
I like to think of it as “planting seeds in her mind.” Once these little ideas are in her brain, she is going to think about you.
And if you did it right, the attraction will build (and build.)
It sounds simple, and it is once you understand it.
(this video teaches something called "The Scrambler" that is designed to "sneak into her mind")
They see a girl and decide almost right away if they want her or not. And it may only take a few times of talking with her for them to get infatuated.
C'mon, you've probably been there. Right?
So why doesn’t it seem to work the same way for girls?
Well, it does, in a way. Girls get attracted to guys just as quickly as guys get attracted to girls.
BUT, girls are much more CAUTIOUS.
This is especially true for really hot girls that every guy wants to sleep with or really cool girls that every guy wants to be in a relationship with.
(Trust me, if you think she is incredibly sexy or super-cool, lots of other guys think exactly the same thing about her).
These desirable girls have had guys get CLINGY and NEEDY. (has THAT guy ever been YOU?)
Plus, they have been with guys who seemed confident and attractive at first... but then turned out to be insecure and BORING.
So even if she seems to like you (actually, especially if she likes you), she is going to be looking for signs that you are somehow undesirable.
(this video reveals 4 of the signs she looks for- and I can bet you're doing at least THREE of them)
A lot of guys, especially those guys who haven't had a lot of success with girls, get insecure and nervous under this kind of scrutiny and they end up doing things that RUIN their chances.
The basically get desperate and become exactly like the kind of needy guys that she is trying to avoid.
What if there was a way to "short circuit" a girl's defenses?
There is. Some guys are able to do it all the time. I'm going to tell you how they do it in a second.
But first, some good news for you: getting past a girls defenses has NOTHING to do with the kind of things that guys usually assume girls are attracted to.
It has nothing to do with how much money you have or how good looking you are or how big your dick is.
Getting past a girl's defenses has everything to do with one simple thing: "getting her to think about you when you are not around."
See, a girl's attraction actually builds when you are not around because attraction is psychological.
These are the "psychological triggers" you want to create in her:
- anticipation to see you
- compulsive thoughts about you
- you want her decoding YOUR BEHAVIOR
Here's the FUN PART.
There are a lot of things that you can do to get a girl to think about you when you are not around.
I like to think of it as “planting seeds in her mind.” Once these little ideas are in her brain, she is going to think about you.
And if you did it right, the attraction will build (and build.)
It sounds simple, and it is once you understand it.
(this video teaches something called "The Scrambler" that is designed to "sneak into her mind")
One of the reasons you might have messed this up in the past is because its all counter-intuitive.
The things you think will work DON'T.
And what works- are things you'd never expect.
If you ever wondered why girls will chase some player or "badboy" for years...when he continually disappoint her- its because he found a way to "control her mind"
This video explains a simple "mind game" that creates the same effect.
The things you think will work DON'T.
And what works- are things you'd never expect.
If you ever wondered why girls will chase some player or "badboy" for years...when he continually disappoint her- its because he found a way to "control her mind"
This video explains a simple "mind game" that creates the same effect.
