Every guy has been there at some point.
She turns you down with one of the standard excuses (“I already have a boyfriend”) or she puts you squarely in the friend zone (“I don't think of you like THAT, we're just friends”).
Or maybe you sent her an embarrassingly needy text or said something she thought was weird or even creepy. And now you think you've totally blown it with her.
Whatever your exact predicament, the question is always the same:
“Okay, so now what?”
Most guys answer in one of two ways:
1 - They decide to give up and get started feeling sorry for themselves
2 - If they are really infatuated with the girl, they'll do something that is completely, embarrassingly desperate. Showing up at her work with unwanted flowers is a very popular way to make yourself look foolish – it works in the movies, but in real life you will come off as sad and desperate.
But what if I told you there was another answer to the “now what?”
You can't erase your past mistakes, but you can make her think about you in a different way, if you know what do and what to say.
In fact, you can completely REVERSE her opinion of you.
And make her forget about your "nice guy" behavior, your neediness, or have her STOP viewing you as "just a friend."
Interested?
Here's the first step: forget everything that you have been doing.
It didn't work.
Now it's time to change your focus.
Your focus should now be totally on getting into her MIND, triggering her emotions so that she starts thinking about you when you are not around.
(hint: getting a girl to think about you when you're not around is the first step to making her fall in love with you)
There are a lot of ways to sneak into her mind.
The right text message or Facebook wall post can get you in. Even a passing comment can be effective if you do it right.
Even a weird little mind game called "The Scrambler" (discover here)
Here's the part that most guys have a hard time with. It seems counter-intuitive to them. You want to plant these “seeds of attraction” in her mind so that she is thinking about you, but then you need to STEP BACK and give what you said time to work.
Guys can get really anxious, especially if they think they have already blown it with a girl. The temptation to call her or text her can be really strong.
But you have to have confidence in those seeds of attraction that you planted in her mind.
(and if you use "The Scrambler" the seeds will TAKE OVER HER MIND.)
This video includes some specific step-by-step strategies that can take you from planting the attraction ideas in her mind to closing the deal and getting her on a date or even into bed.
(its laid out step by step here)
This strategy isn't on most guys' radar. If you are doing it right, she WILL be thinking about you...even if other guys are aggressively trying to seduce her.
Go here to learn the exact steps for planting attraction and desire in her mind
